How to talk dirty Troy
* Different words affect people different. For some people words are considered vulgar, whereas others consider it a turn on.
* When thinking about talking dirty, you need to find the words and phrases that not only you are comfortable with, but also your partner. You don't want to say phrases that are going to offend or upset your partner.
* Think about what words turn you on, what you like being called when you are having sex etc. It could be words as simple as 'hot stuff' while for others it is something more like 'love that wet pussy'.
* Talking about sex can make people hot and horny. If you struggle to talk about sex and what you like, then gentle dirty talk is more likely for you. If you are struggling to talk to you partner about sex, it is best to troy built that. There is nothing wrong or shameful in talking to your partner about what you like or don't like about your sex life.
* Once you are open about your sex life, then talking dirty may interest you more.
Some tips for when you start that dirty talk:
* At the start you might feel weird when you talk dirty, especially if you are using words that are not usually in your vocabulary.
* If you say the words like you really don't want to be saying them, then this can be a turn off. Be sure you want to talk dirty, there is nothing wrong if you don't want to.
* You could write down the words you want to say. Read them over again and then say them confidently and seductively to your sweetheart.
* If you are feeling hesitant, the best way to practise is talking out loud to yourself and think of words that you are comfortable using.
* Dirty talk can also be sexy talk, like you are teasing your partner. It could be dominating talk like 'get here now you hunk of spunk' or simply sweet and sexy talk like 'you sexy beast'.
* You could practise in front of the mirror with certain facial expressions. Get confident talking out loud before you say it to your partner as you want to sounds confident and sexy.
* You could practise while you masturbate, whether it is with your trusty hand or fingers or while using sex toys. It is great to do it in this situation are you are horny and that is when the words are going to come most naturally to you.
When you start talking dirty to your partner, you could:
* Try whispering things in your partner's ear. This doesn't even have to be in the bedroom, you could be out at dinner, or taking a walk, or of course it could be during foreplay.
* You could write sexy notes to each other and leave them around the house. Sexy emails or even text messages. This can make you hot and horny and put you in the mood for when you get home.
* If you are not sure where to start with dirty talk, then you could get an adult video from The Stud's online adult shop and watch it together, and talk about what language you like and don't like.
* Talking dirty can lead to more experimental sex, and even kinkier sex using bondage gear and sex toys. You could blind fold your partner and talk dirty to them...the possibilities are endless.
Troy